Two professional workers, one male and one female, and two hourly employees, one male and one female, walk into an office. All four want to ask their boss for a flexible schedule, either to advance their job- or career-related skills or to attend to family responsibilities. Both women expect the boss to approve their request, while the men think they're unlikely to get approval. Their managers award flexible schedules to both men but neither women.
This scenario is true-to-life, according to a new study published in the Journal of Social Issues. Bosses favor men over women when employees ask for flextime. Researchers from Yale, Texas and Harvard asked managers how they would respond to requests for a flexible schedule from male versus female employees, from professional workers versus hourly workers, and for the purpose of career development versus child care. Managers were most likely to grant a shift in work hours to the professional men pursuing career advancement opportunities. Male hourly workers also were likely to receive approval if they needed flexibility for family care. But the women - both professional and hourly - were unlikely to be granted a flexible schedule regardless of the reason for the request. Women were unable to use either their professional status within the organization or their reason for requesting flexibility to boost the probability that the manager would say yes. And the women most in need of flexible scheduling - mothers with child care needs who worked in lower-status hourly jobs - were among the least likely to see a request approved by managers.
The researchers explain the results by saying that "managers respect high-status men more than high-status women" and that "people have a fundamental psychological motive to defend and perpetuate the status quo." These biases are evident particularly in the finding that managers gave the flexible schedule to the professional men seeking training to advance their careers, but not their female counterparts asking for exactly the same reason.
The authors also imply an absence of trust between managers and women. Because the female gender is associated so strongly with family care, even ambitious women seeking flextime to advance their careers are suspected of hiding the true reason for the request or are deemed less deserving of development opportunities because they might later choose to work fewer hours or opt out. "The association between women and motherhood is so strong," the researchers conclude, "that even women who have proven themselves by achieving a high-status occupation and asking for further career training cannot overcome this actuarial mistrust of women workers."
A second study reported in this research examined worker and manager expectations and found that women overestimated the likelihood that a flextime request would be granted to them (men underestimated it). That tendency produces a situation where the people most likely to be asking are also most likely to get denied, so the workplace environment is filled with flex request rejections. If ambitious mothers need flexibility to sustain career climbs, and they do, not receiving it is demoralizing, and witnessing others' requests denied is more demoralizing still. It's easy to understand how women might conclude that "leaning back" or opting out are not only rational but psychologically healthier choices. But if they switch to part-time or lower-pressure jobs or slower career tracks, they feed the motherhood stereotype that activated the negative cycle of bias in the first place. Moreover, they also set the stage for further limits on their career advancement. Organizations, for their part, might as well just take a hammer to their pipeline of talented mothers, and watch it leak precious human resource investments.
Nanette Fondas is co-author of "The Custom-Fit Workplace." She wrote this for Slate.